When it comes to dogging in the UK, there are a growing number of ways to find locations online… and less places that actually give you any idea of what the experience is like. We’re looking to change that. Today we’re going to spill the beans on what you can expect while you’re dogging in the UK.
Right off the bat, there are two sorts of ways you can go dogging. Public woods beside car parks, or scenic destinations that allow you to park your car for hours late at night without anyone ringing up the cops on you. Depending on where you are in London, you might find that one type of dogging grounds is more common than the other.
When it comes to dogging in your car, there are two ways to do it. You can go out with your wife and simply have sex, lights on in the car so that other people can gather around and watch, or you can go out, find a stranger, and invite them in. You do this by flashing your headlights or your interior lights, or by leaving the passenger door open. The partner, usually a guy, will slip into the car with you and the two of you can have your fun.
Then there’s the sort like Gog Magog, which is a car park pressed to some public woods. Here you’re going to find daytime, outdoor sex the most common occurrence. You park nearby and then trot into the woods, where you wait around for someone else to show up. The fucking takes place, and then you either both part ways… or you wait around for someone else to come and take a turn.
For both of these sorts of dogging days, there are some basic rules of etiquette that you should follow. First and foremost, it’s expected that you always use a condom. Bring your own condom and don’t mess around with anyone who won’t slip on a rubber. You’re looking for some kinky fun, not an STD!
You’re going to want to make sure that you don’t damage any public property, either, and that you’re only soliciting fellow doggers – not someone that happens to have pulled over to eat take out on their way home, or went for a walk in the woods not knowing it was a dogging locale. This ties hand in hand with the fact that you’re expected to clean up your own mess. Don’t leave used rubbers laying around, take them somewhere and toss them in a bin. Your fun shouldn’t cause a mess for someone else!
You should also be aware of the fact that this isn’t going to be some skeevy back alley dealing. The people who take part in dogging are usually well groomed, with decent cars and jobs. They’re every day people same as you. There are also a lot more of them than you’re probably expecting. Gog Magog, for example, is such an incredibly well known dogging location that there have actually been cases of reporters being sent out there to cover stories on it! And with the rising trend in people talking about their bedroom affairs online, you’re going to find that there are endless accounts of dogging days posted on fetish forums that you can check out.
So you can expect there to be rules (flashing lights, don’t join without being told, watching is expected and accepted) and that there are going to be a lot more people hanging around than such an out there fetish might imply. Those two things should be a comfort, though! Let them ease some of the nerves that might be clinging to you, and go check out your first dogging party! The best thing about trying out new kinks is that there’s no contract being signed. You can sample the fairs and then head back home if it ends up not being your thing.
And even if you don’t actively want to take part, there’s no harm in going out and finding someone to watch!