How and Why to Start Swinging as a Single Female
Why Should I Start Swinging as a Single Female?
There’s a reason that a single woman in the swinging community is known as a unicorn – it’s that rare! But it’s definitely not unheard of, and more women should take advantage of the enormous benefits to be gained from the single swinging life. Let’s go over some of the basics of why this is a good decision, shall we?
In general, the swinging community is made up of more males than females, and it’s a lot of couples. This puts single women in the position where they can be extra choosey about whom they spend time with. And oh, there are some delicious possibilities to select from! You’d be surprised at the number of young and sexy couples who are looking to indulge.
You don’t need to be young or ridiculously good looking to attract a fair amount of attention. Keep in mind; you’re the one being sought after here.
Explore Your Fantasies
If you’re a buttoned down professional by day, you may find yourself craving sexual release in the way of a hedonistic fantasy or two. And as a single female, you are in the driver’s seat as far as the scenarios that can play out.
Have you always dreamed of being fucked by a man while his wife watches? Do you want to know what a threesome would be like? Have you been craving a woman’s touch and want to experiment with bisexuality?
These thoughts can become a reality for a single swinger. Couples who are looking for a playmate will be very happy to help you realize these fantasies.
If you’re looking for something long-term, that’s cool too, but if you’re looking to avoid commitment swinging has you covered. It’s a great landing place for those who have recently gotten out of a restrictive relationship, and want some no-strings-attached fun. Oh, and earth-shattering sex. That almost goes without saying.
Meet Some Interesting People
Swingers in general are a fascinating group of people. They’re fun and care free, and aren’t tied to a lot of the social norms that hold others back in life. If you’re interested in pillow talk (and it’s OK not to be) you’ll likely get to know some wonderful people.
Alright, Sign Me Up!
So I’ve piqued your interest enough to get you this far! Good, good. So now that you know all of the benefits of becoming a sexy single swinger, the next step is to figure out how.
Do Your Research
The first thing to do is find a swinger’s club in your area. Use a site such as OnlySwinging to find a club that suits your interests.
Most clubs have a message board or forum that you can peruse, and you’ll get a feel for the type of people who frequent the club. Some clubs have themes, such as BDSM, and others will be more open. Find one that fits your needs.
Stake Out the Club
While it’s completely possible to enter a swinger’s club by yourself, you’ll probably feel a heck of a lot more comfortable if you go with a friend. Women don’t generally have any issues getting in to the clubs, and many clubs offer incentives in the way of discounted membership. Bonus!
If you can’t find a gal pal to go with, ask a male friend to accompany you for your first time out.
Set Your Parameters in Advance
If you’re heading to the club for the first time, it helps to know what you’re comfortable with before you walk in. Is sex on the table? Are you interested in activity with other women?
Have the answers to these questions in advance, and be clear to yourself and others. The swinging community is, in general, exceptionally respectful. You should have no trouble turning someone down if you’re polite, but firm.
You’ll get a lot more with honey than vinegar, as the saying goes. As you enter the wet and wild world of swinging, be respectful of other people, and they will be respectful of you. If you’re unsure of something, say so. Be patient with others and yourself.
Realize Your Fantasies
The life of a swinger is an adventure, and it can be a welcome escape from the boring monotony of the single life. When you’re ready to dive in, keep an open mind, and you may be surprised at what you find you enjoy.