When it comes to trying new things out in the bedroom, there’s a certain stigma about being ‘mature’ and trying out new things. People now a days like to act as if your life ends the moment you hit forty five – but you know what? We think that the exact opposite is true. Today we’re going to talk about why you should consider swinging even if you might fall into the category of being a ‘mature’ swinger!
An introducing to Mature Swinging
When it comes to being in a committed relationship that’s starting to eke up in years, you might find that things start to feel a little bit stale. While the romantic spark isn’t anywhere close to fading, you might have recently started to take notice of the fact that it’s just not as much fun to take a roll in the sheets as it used to be. You don’t want to be with someone else in a romantic manner, but you also desperately need something to help spice up the bedroom life.
That’s where swinging comes in.
Older Swinging Couple
Why to start swinging as a Mature Swinger
The concept is that it provides you and your partner a chance to do something new and exhilarating, without putting any amount of stress or damage on your actual romantic life or your home life. At the end of the day, you’re still going to go home with your wife of twenty or thirty years, but you’re going to find that there’s a renewed interest between you… something in the air that simply hadn’t been there before.
Swinging gives you and your wife a chance to try something new. It’s not any different from how some people go on cruises once they crest the hill, or how some people make weekly jumps to hit up early bird specials. You and your wife have finally reached your golden years. Why should you waste them sitting at home on the couch watching the same old re-runs, and having the same routine and down right boring sex, when there are other options available to you?
Why Swinging as a Mature Swinger is easier
The fact that you’re both mature might even make it go easier. At this point, there are probably very few things that the two of you haven’t discussed, so you might find that you have an easier time broaching the subject to your wife. You already have a good grasp on her view of sex, and on how long she needs to give things a think over, so some of the initial stress of bringing up the subject might just not be there – where as a younger couple might have to be concerned about whether the suggestion is going to rock the boat a little too much, your relationship has already weathered the storm countless times over!
You also are both level headed enough to understand that the fun you have in the bedroom doesn’t define you as people, and it also doesn’t define your status as a couple. Because you’ve already been together for so long, you know that there is a strong bond between you, and that your love isn’t going anywhere any time soon. You’ll likely find that jealousy isn’t much of a concern, and that you’re both excited at, not just the start of a swinging night, but at the end of it too!
More mature couples who have recently gotten involved with the swinging lifestyle are happy to explain how it’s only furthered their emotional bond with each other by relieving the pressure to sexually satisfy their partner on a ‘new’ level. They’ve even found that it makes them more excited to sleep with each other on the nights not devoted to swinging!
Mature Swinging Couples
What if Mature Swinging isn’t for you
And of course one of the biggest benefits to getting started swinging as a mature swinger is the fact that if things don’t work out, and you decide that it’s not your cup of tea or your preferred scene, you aren’t going to feel obligated to keep doing it. You’ll be comfortable enough that you and your partner can simply discuss the matter at hand and work things out together, the way that you’ve always done.
There’s no harm in starting your swinging experience later in late is what we’re saying, so go out there and have some fun!
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