An introduction to exploring your bisexuality
Three things are certain in life: death, taxes, and in this case, sex. Sex is one of the primary ways to get intimate with a person. It has a lot of psychological and health benefits. You can’t easily think of a thing as rewarding to the brain and body than the feeling of sex. Humans are different, and so sex can be express in so many ways including heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality, and more. Today, we want to talk about how you can explore your bisexuality as a Swinger.
Why being bisexual is great
Let’s get a few things straight (or maybe not). If you are bisexual you are sexually attracted to both male and female genders (or multiple genders). It may also be that you are attracted to people of all gender identity or sex. There are several advantages to being bisexual but the biggest yet is the ability to be sexually attracted to both genders. That ability increases your options as opposed to other people who can only have sexual acts with one gender. You know what that means right? It means you can make out with a girl, a guy, a threesome, transgender, and so on. There’s almost no limit to.
Ways to explore your bisexuality as a swinger
Discussing your bisexuality with your partner
You can’t be a swinger without your partner also being one. So discuss with your partner about swinging and bisexuality. If you have never discussed with him or her before, that means you have to present the subject slowly. You can ask questions to first know his or her perspective. You can then use the information you get to know how best to tell your partner about it.
If you are single, you have no ties!
Join a Bisexual friendly swingers club
The advantage of swinging clubs or parties is that it brings swingers together and establishes a community. These communities make it easier for you to socialize with other swingers. Many of these communities hold parties that are exclusive to swingers. You can even find parties hosted in your area, or you can even organize one yourself. You can find information on this on dating websites which we will be talking about next.
Many of these parties are private and have rules that should be respected, so ensure you find out what they are and obey them. Some of these rules include the regulation and prohibition of phones with cameras. This is done to keep people’s profiles confidential and respect privacy. Some of these communities include the Society of Janus, Killing Kittens, and more
Lastly, you are not obliged to interact with anyone when you get into any of these parties. So don’t feel pressure to. If it is your first time, you can simply just go there to observe.
Join up to a swinging website
We all know one of the primary purposes of the internet is to connect people. The same also applies to Swinger’s dating. Online dating remains one of the easiest ways to find a date. This is because it doesn’t carry along the pressure that is usually there when one has to ask a stranger out face to face. With the internet, you can be bolder when interacting. The best part is that it brings you to someone with the same needs as you. That is what dating platforms are for. You just have to create your profile which allows you to state what and who you’re interested in. Someone with the same interest can easily find you, depending on the platforms. There are many of these websites, some of which are Onlyswinging, Mixxxer, Swing Lifestyle, and more. If you are skeptical about these websites, there’s an official article on Reddit that discusses the pros and cons of the most popular swinging platforms.
Practice Safe Bi-Sex
If you’ve ever been to a Swinging party before, you’ll find out that the opportunities are endless. It’s like royal feasting. It’s like walking through a grocery store with all your favorite products lined up in between. It’s like going to McDonald’s to make an order. It’s like one of those dream circumstances you only fantasize about but never thought it would ever be a reality.
As you walk right through rooms in a swinging party, you’ll witness these moments. Lesbians in ecstasy, with legs spread out and pussy eaten. Guys sitting on dreamland, and they have the milk blow out their rock-hard dick. Gay guy having the moment of his life with a dick thrust in and out of his ass. Sex orgies with men and women. Hot moaning from all angles. You are not going to be short of arousal. Feel free to explore anyone you want. You can also try something new. Have you done Bukkake before? Then give it a go
Swinging Parties are meant to be exciting, and they are. Feel free to contribute to this also. Show up in one of those hot leather wears. Let’s get a glimpse of the boobs. Take a nice haircut. Keep those pussies clean and shave. There’s no telling how many people might be waiting to worship it. Come with your unique sex styles. Think of ways you and your partner could make it more exciting. Cowboy, Batman, Wonder woman, let’s see some role plays.
Establishing Swinging boundaries with your partner
You, along with your partner have to recognize your boundaries. You have to speak to each other about it and establish them. This will prevent a lot of jealousy or conflict. It is not wise of you both to just go into swinging, not knowing what to expect. You have to know what you want out of swinging so that when you get there, you’ll know what to take and not find yourself just accepting anything.
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