Just because you think something sounds hot, that isn’t going to mean that it’s going to be easy to figure out how to get into things. You’re going to want to read a few posts, think about a few of the logistics, and just get a little bit more information about the subject at hand. Luckily, we’re here to help you all figure out exactly how to get started in the cuckold lifestyle.
What is a Cuckold
To sum things up, cuckholding is the fetish or kink of being turned on by letting your partner have sex with someone else, whilst you are turned on and humiliated by this, in a submissive way.. It’s often linked to the BDSM practice, which has an overlapping line of involving humiliation, domination, and submission in the bedroom. Cuckholding doesn’t usually involve the bondage and spanking, though!
The term cuckhold explicitly refers to someone who is fully aware and heartily approves of their partner’s affairs with other people. It’s a lot more common than you might be thinking, so there’s no reason to be out there feeling embarrassed over the matter! It has a name because it’s a fairly popular aspect of lovemaking to get involved with.
The ins and outs of Cuckolding
Like any kink, there are plenty of variables at play. You’re going to want to figure out what you and your partner are both looking for. Before you can get into the down and dirty, you need to have several sit down talks with your partner to make sure that everyone is on the same page. You want to make sure that not only are you both super into the idea, but you’re going to need to cover the fact that if jealousy, at any point, becomes an issue… It’s going to be brought up and dealt with in a mature manner.
Sexual jealousy is one thing. That’s part of the fun. Knowing that someone else wants your partner is going to really kick your desire into overdrive, and can add that extra spice into your relationship. Emotional jealousy, on the other hand, is something that needs to be nipped in the bud at the start before it can turn into something more difficult to deal with or detrimental to your relationship.
After all, you’re looking to get an added boost in the bedroom – not cause a rift in the relationship!
Cuckolding and Humiliation
Humiliation is often a large part of cuckolding. It comes from the ridicule a person is likely to feel when their partner cheats on them. This can come from watching their partner with someone else, or some extra humiliation thrown in for good measure, like being laughed at or belittled by their partner and the bull.
And of course, for some people, it’s not about getting off on humiliation. Again, this is why open and healthy communication is so important to anyone that’s looking into the cuckolding lifestyle. You both need to know what to expect and what should go on once a scene starts, or else there’s bound to be complications and hurt feelings!
What does the Cuck do?
The cuck is, essentially, the person that submits to sitting back and letting someone else take over their role in the bedroom. The pleasure comes from giving up that power of sexually pleasing your partner over to someone else.
And of course, the idea is that the pleasure is two fold. One of you gets to orgasm with a third party that’s brought in for the fun. And then when you get back home, you’re going to find that the sex between yourself and your partner will get better too. This is because you’re both happy and having a good time – and because the sexual tension between you and your partner has ramped up to a totally new degree.
In fact, adding the concept of cuckolding into the relationship might even be enough to revitalize a relationship that’s started to get a little bit stale! You’re both going to end up feeling more satisfied, and the open trust between the two of you will make the emotional aspect of your relationship that much stronger.
In fact, the general consensus is that he majority of couples that partake in cuckolding tend to have excellent communication and added strength to their intimacy. You’ve just shared a deep desire with your partner, and you’re going to find that trust filling you with new warmth.
So if this is an idea that gets you hot, or you’re looking for a bit more spice to get brought into the bedroom, it might be time to bring up the concept of cuckolding.