7 ways to start swinging as young swingers

7 ways to start swinging as young swingers

If you’ve been fantasizing about swinging and just don’t know how to get started, than you’ve come to the right place! We know all the down and dirty secrets, we’ve tried all the short cuts and cheap tricks, we’ve made mistakes so you don’t have to – and now we’re here to share it all with you, to make sure that you have a great time. We’re going to look over seven ways to get started swinging as a young, beginner swinger!

One! When couples first start talking about swinging together, it’s important that they discuss their reasons for wanting to give it a try. This can be as simple as you think it sounds fun, you want to try and spice things up in the bedroom, or you just managed to land yourself invite to a local party. Once you figure out your reasons, you need to have a sit down talk with your partner about expectations. We know, that sounds nerve wracking, but it’s vital to making sure that you both have fun!

Two! Setting ground rules before you have your first time is super important. What happens if you’re both at a singing party and one of you wants to leave early? Do you both go home, or is it chill if one of you stays? Should you always be in the same room together, even when the sex is actually happening? Do you only want to swing with couples of the same sexuality, or are you okay with swinging if it’s a same sex couple? Covering this before you hit the party scene will make it a whole lot less stressful!

Three! Figure out who you are! What we mean by this is that a lot of swingers keep their private lives and their real lives separate. It’s not only acceptable but actively encouraged to create a different persona to adapt when you enter the swinging scene. This will help prevent any fall backs from hitting your personal or professional lives, and make sure that the only people who know that you guys swing are the people you out right tell.

Four! Take your time to shop around! There are tons of swinging ‘dating’ sites out there that allow you to check out the profiles of other swingers. Spend a couple of days, or even a few weeks, looking over the different profiles, chatting with other couples online, and even doing a video chat or two to see who you hit it off with. Personalty and looks are equally important!

Five! A quick online search will let you know where the local swinging clubs are at and how to participate. You can also ask other swingers you meet online on adult dating sites. Before you go, find out if the club is open to everyone or couples only. Also, find out if they have special theme nights.

Six! Try out a swinging party! Make sure you arrive on time, look good, smell good, and are respectful not only to the other people at the party, but to the host that’s sporting the event – these are often held at peoples homes, after all!

Seven! When you meet another swinging couple or individual, respect their right to privacy by not asking too many questions. Unless you’ve been given advanced permission, don’t take any photos or video. Don’t take it personally if they don’t want to see you again. Many swingers want to stay as anonymous as possible. On the upside, this means you get to have a LOT of ‘first times’ with other couples!

And those are the seven best tips and tricks that we can give to people considering starting out their new swinging experience! The swingers lifestyle should be fun and exciting. If you’re finding that it is causing tension or drama in your relationship, then it might be time to look into another activity to try out. Make sure to always have open communication and be respectful! We hope that some of these tips will be enough to help turn your first time as a swinging couple into a night you won’t forget – and that you’ll have enough fun to do it again later on!